Traditionally, dad’s are the more physically playful of the two parents a child has at home. However, some kids are raised only by mom, and others have dads who work frequently or are not as physical as their kids. Enter play wrestling: a great non-threatening way to get your child some serious heavy work.
When your child comes home from school, are they cranky, irritable or going a hundred miles a minute? It may be because they have had to sit most of the day and are fidgety from the lack of the most grounding of sensory inputs: proprioception (heavy work). Maybe you are tired too, and you want the kids to do something where they don’t hurt each other.
Here’s how to set up play wrestling:
*place some pillows and cushions in a big circle (better yet, have your kids do it)
*get a bell to signal start of play
*review the rules: back to back or side to side until one person falls over, when a person is down the wrestling is over, “stop” said by any player means stop, have fun!
*if one child is taller than another, the taller one can try going on their knees
Play wrestling is a fun way to have fun and even establish trust if everyone respects each other and the rules. It’s a super way to transition between school and homework (especially if you follow it with a piece of gum and maybe a drink through a straw). Give it a try, you may find yourself jumping in!